Have you ever felt like you’re working hard but going nowhere? Like you’re checking all the boxes, showing up for the job, but deep down… you’re not fulfilled?
If that hit a little too close to home, you’re not alone. So many women are stuck in careers that look good on paper but leave them empty inside. The truth is—there’s a difference between having a career and living out your calling.
Let’s break it down—and help you figure out if you’re truly aligned with your purpose.
Career vs. Calling: What’s the Difference?
A career is something you choose for stability, income, or status. A calling, on the other hand, chooses you—it’s that internal fire that won’t let you sleep, the thing you’d still do even if you weren’t getting paid.
💡 Your calling lights you up. It aligns with your passions, values, and gifts.
🔄 Your career may check boxes, but if it’s not rooted in purpose, burnout isn’t far behind.
So ask yourself honestly: Are you thriving… or just surviving?
The Signs You’re Not in Alignment
If you’ve been…
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Waking up dreading the workday
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Feeling stuck, bored, or emotionally drained
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Fantasizing about a different life or career
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Questioning if “this is all there is”
…you may not be walking in your true purpose.
And here’s the good news: It’s not too late to change that.
How to Find Your True Calling
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Reconnect with Your Passions
What did you love doing before life got in the way? What would you still do if nobody paid you? -
Use Tools to Understand Yourself
Take personality, values, and interest assessments. Learn your strengths. Your soul leaves clues. -
Pay Attention to What Energizes You
Notice when time flies. That’s a sign you’re in flow—where your calling often lives. -
Practice Gratitude & Openness
Women who embrace change, stay curious, and reflect daily often attract more aligned opportunities. -
Dare to Dream Out Loud
Even if your vision sounds “crazy” to others—if it speaks to your soul, it’s worth exploring.
What Happens When You Choose Your Calling
When you follow your calling, work feels meaningful. Life feels richer. Even the hard days make sense because you know you’re building something real.
I’ve met women who left six-figure jobs to teach yoga, start nonprofits, write books, or open bakeries—and they’ve never looked back. Why? Because they finally said yes to what was already inside of them.
QUIZ: Is Your Career Your Calling?
Take this quick quiz to find out if you’re aligned with your purpose—or due for a pivot.
1. How do you feel on Sunday night?
A. Anxious or dreading Monday
B. Neutral—it’s just another day
C. Excited to get back to what I love
2. Do you feel energized or drained after a typical workday?
A. Drained
B. Depends on the day
C. Energized—even when it’s hard
3. Do you talk about your work with pride?
A. Not really
B. Sometimes
C. Absolutely—it lights me up!
4. Would you still do what you’re doing now if money wasn’t an issue?
A. Nope
B. Maybe…
C. Yes, without question
5. Are your talents being fully used in your current role?
A. Not at all
B. Somewhat
C. 100%
Your Results:
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Mostly A’s: You’re likely in a career, not your calling. Time to start asking deeper questions.
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Mostly B’s: You’re in the middle—maybe comfortable, but not fully fulfilled.
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Mostly C’s: You’re aligned and living your purpose. Keep going, sis!
Ready to Go Deeper?
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